Empathic Adventurers
What does the world need more of?
In February 2019, I drove from Richmond to California and asked strangers along the way: what do you think the world needs more of?
WHY?
I wanted to overcome my fear of talking to strangers. I was searching for meaningful connection.
For years when I crossed a state line, I’d hit the grocery store then drive straight to the nearest woods. I camped in remote places, thinking I was getting the most out of life by avoiding people and immersing myself in the natural world.
The deep appreciation I felt for nature was absent in my connections with humans.
My goals for this project were simple:
When my goals include others, the process feels joyful.
This project has turned into a novel. (Coming soon!)
This project turned into this blog, which gives us a place to learn about and connect with other adventurers.
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“It’s not about changing the world, it’s about changing your world.”
Brene Brown
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